“You’re Not Doing Your Wife A Favour When You Pay Bills” – Mary Remmy Njoku Tells Men

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The mom-of-three said marriage and parenting is a partnership and a man paying bills is merely holding up his end of the bargain.

Popular Nigerian actress and producer, Mary Remmy Njoku has told African men that they are not doing their wives a favour when they pay their bills..

 

The mom-of-three, who is married to iROKO TV boss Jason Nkoku, said marriage and parenting is a partnership and a man paying bills is merely holding up his end of the bargain.

The ROK TV boss added: “The greatest marriages are built on teamwork. When it comes to marriage, the love shouldn’t be blind. Marry a team player.”

See her post below;

“I’m struggling to understand this.
Two people are working, but only one is paying the bills and it’s supposed to be a partnership? 

The banality of this in my opinion, suggests a concoction of contradictions, conveying a message which on the one hand recommends partnership, but then on the other, advocates for African men, whilst at the same time seemingly ignoring the benefits of a patriarchal society.

Traditional African men don’t ‘partner’ with their wives, they pay bills and consequently own women, who in return serve them, while tolerating polygamy and concubinage.

Modernization propounds a social scheme denouncing some of the ‘benefits’ of a patricentric system, in favor of a balance in gender roles and privileges.

I find it inequitable to select only the aspects of both constructs that benefit only a particular gender, increasing the responsibilities of the other while depriving them of their dividends.

‘Sharing’ instead of ‘paying’ the bills, would have been more appropriate in my opinion.
~FRZ
#DaddyFreeze
#FreeTheSheeple”

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